安葬于西敏寺的英国国教主教的墓志铭:-----------------------我年少时,意气风发,踌躇满志,当时曾梦想要改变世界,但当我年事渐长,阅历增多,我发觉自己无力改变世界,于是我缩小了范围,决定改变我的国家。但这个目标还是太大了。接著我步入了中年,无奈之余,我将试图改变的对象锁定在最亲密的家人身上。但天不从人愿,他们个个还是维持原样。当我垂垂老矣,我终于顿悟了一些事:我应该先改变自己,用以身作则的方式影响家人。若我能先当家人的榜样,也许下一步就能改善我的国家,再后来我甚至可能改造整个世界,谁知道呢?
wheniwasyoungandfreeandmyimaginationhadnolimits,idreamedofchangingtheworld.asigrewolderandwiser,idiscoveredtheworldwouldnotchange,soishortenedmysightssomewhatanddecidedtochangeonlymycountry.butit,too,seemedimmovable.asigrewintomytwilightyears,inonelastdesperateattempt,isettledforchangingonlymyfamily,thoseclosesttome,butalas,theywouldhavenoneofit.andnow,asilieonmydeathbed,isuddenlyrealize:ifihadonlychangedmyselffirst,thenbyexampleiwouldhavechangedmyfamily.fromtheirinspirationandencouragement,iwouldthenhavebeenabletobettermycountry,andwhoknows,imayhaveevenchangedtheworld.